As TMZ first reported, it took all of 15 seconds for Carrie to drop her $1 million demand from the Pageant people after the XXX tape was played….the Pageant is paying around $100,000 to her lawyers and publicist — a fraction of her bills. She pockets nothing in the settlement. Carrie Prejean wasn’t the only member of her family who got a peek at Carrie’s solo sex tape…her MOM was in the room when the Miss California USA lawyers pressed play. Sources tell TMZ Carrie’s mom was in shock — instantly turning sheet white as she watched her daughter give herself a hand. Also, the conservative groups that had invited her to speak at their gatherings have been retracting those invitations lately…So Hating IT!